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Teo, I'm really sorry for your loss.


Posted by: Wrongshore | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 12:31 AM
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My condolences to teo and his family.


Posted by: ben w-lfs-n | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 1:33 AM
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Posted by: yoyo | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 2:12 AM
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Christ. Sorry, teo.


Posted by: DS | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 2:15 AM
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So sorry, mate.


Posted by: OneFatEnglishman | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 2:19 AM
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I´m so sorry to hear it.


Posted by: Witt | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 4:00 AM
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I'm sorry, teo. Don't feel bad about asking for anything, if there's anything we can do to help.


Posted by: LizardBreath | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 4:50 AM
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My condolences to you and your family, Teo.

I'm going to go call my Dad now.


Posted by: Knecht Ruprecht | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 5:17 AM
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Very sorry.


Posted by: emir | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 5:34 AM
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I'm very sorry to hear that, teo. Best to you and your family.


Posted by: apostropher | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 5:44 AM
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I'm so sorry. The dead fathers club is a shitty club to belong to. Take care of yourself.


Posted by: redfoxtailshrub | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 5:52 AM
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i'm really, really sorry to hear that, teo.
i wish you and your family the best.


Posted by: kid bitzer | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 5:57 AM
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Teo-

Sad to hear that. Condolences to you and your family.


Posted by: terpbball | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 6:09 AM
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What sad news. My sympathy. 7, definitely.


Posted by: Counterfly | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 6:19 AM
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Aww, that sucks teo, my condolences to you and your family as well.


Posted by: CJB | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 6:26 AM
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Condolences from my corner of lurkerdom, teofilo.


Posted by: hermit greg | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 6:28 AM
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Very sorry, Teo. I wish peace for you.


Posted by: cerebrocrat | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 6:31 AM
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So sorry, teo.


Posted by: politicalfootball | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 6:36 AM
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Best wishes to you and your family.


Posted by: sam k | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 6:38 AM
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All my condolences and sympathy, Teo.


Posted by: Populuxe | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 6:43 AM
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The dead fathers club is a shitty club to belong to.

Indeed. I just realized it was 20 years ago this month that my father died. Of all the cruel tricks life will play on you, taking away a parent just as you're entering adulthood is one of the most gratuitous.

After things settle down some, be sure you and your mother go do some gratuitously nice things for yourselves, teo.


Posted by: apostropher | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 6:58 AM
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Condolences and best wishes, teofilo.


Posted by: nattarGcM ttaM | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 7:07 AM
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Rah and I both send teo our condolences.


Posted by: Robust McManlyPants | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 7:15 AM
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I'm so sorry to hear that. You'll be in my thoughts.


Posted by: Blume | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 7:18 AM
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Another member of the DFC here. Teo, my deepest, most heartfelt condolences to you and yours. I'll keep you in my thoughts, and let us know what we can do.


Posted by: Chopper | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 7:22 AM
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I'm so sorry to hear that, Teo. You and your family will be in my thoughts and prayers.


Posted by: Becks | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 7:22 AM
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Oh, teo. My condolences.


Posted by: Cala | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 7:24 AM
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21: It's a kick in the head and heart whenever it happens IMX. It changes one's whole relationship with one's family and the universe.

Best wishes, Teo.


Posted by: Biohazard | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 7:24 AM
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Sorry to hear it.


Posted by: Brock Landers | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 7:27 AM
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Went through it in December 2005, right before I showed up here. If it's been coming for awhile, if you haven't really been able to communicate for a long time, you thing nothing much will change, that you've already adjusted, that nothing new will occur to you. You'll be wrong about that.


Posted by: I don't pay | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 7:31 AM
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Posted by: I don't pay | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 7:31 AM
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I am deeply sorry for your loss.


Posted by: rob helpy-chalk | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 7:32 AM
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Sorry to hear it, teo. Hang in there.


Posted by: slolernr | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 7:33 AM
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Condolences Teo, to you and your family.


Posted by: mike d | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 8:01 AM
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I hope Teo won't mind my mentioning how doubly shitty the timing is. Teo's birthday is tomorrow.


Posted by: sam k | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 8:08 AM
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Horrible horrible. I'm so sorry, Teo.


Posted by: Jackmormon | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 8:08 AM
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Very sorry Teo. Sympathy and condolences to you and your family.


Posted by: mcmc | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 8:21 AM
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Deepest condolences, teo.


Posted by: Minivet | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 8:22 AM
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I'm so, so sorry. My dad died a couple of months ago and Biohazard (28) has it about right.


Posted by: oudemia | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 8:26 AM
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My condolences, Teo.


Posted by: snarkout | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 8:43 AM
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Thanks, everybody. As sam k mentions, this is rather unfortunate timing since tomorrow is my birthday. I'll be 23.


Posted by: teofilo | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 8:49 AM
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35: Oh dear, that is extra sad.


Posted by: redfoxtailshrub | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 8:49 AM
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My condolences to you and you your family Teo.


Posted by: md 20/400 | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 8:50 AM
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So sorry, Teo. I hope the best for all of you.


Posted by: Po-Mo Polymath | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 8:54 AM
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Wow, that really sucks. Sorry.


Posted by: Cyrus | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 9:03 AM
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I said this last night at your place, Teo, but I'm doubly sorry that it happened just before your birthday.

Mr. B.'s father died shortly before PK was born. It was really hard on him.


Posted by: bitchphd | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 9:08 AM
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So sorry.


Posted by: ukko | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 9:11 AM
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So sorry, teo.


Posted by: peep | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 9:12 AM
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41: I'll be 23

course i don't how old your father was

way too early to lose a parent. if you are lucky, your twenties are when you start liking each other and start becoming friends. lost my father when i was 35 and that last decade was the best

the 50ish parent and 30ish kid that can exchange perspectives and share experiences without dependencies may be one of the best parts of life. maybe even the best part of having kids is sharing them with your parents. maybe not, not having kids, what would i know

but i am so sorry for your loss


Posted by: bob mcmanus | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 9:22 AM
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Oh, no. I'm so sorry.


Posted by: Katherine | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 9:27 AM
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the 50ish parent and 30ish kid that can exchange perspectives and share experiences without dependencies may be one of the best parts of life. maybe even the best part of having kids is sharing them with your parents.

This is really true -- oh, not the best part, there is no best part, but it's good.


Posted by: LizardBreath | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 9:28 AM
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So sorry, Teo. Condolences.


Posted by: TJ | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 9:32 AM
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I'm sorry, teo. My condolences to you and your family.


Posted by: Josh | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 10:17 AM
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Teo, I'm so very sorry. If I lost a parent, I'd be inconsolable. You're too young to have to deal with this, and it's terribly unfair. I'm sorry you have to. Damn.


Posted by: Wrenae | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 10:25 AM
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Teo, my condolences to you and your family.


Posted by: Honigessig | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 10:34 AM
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I am very sorry, Teo. Please keep us posted and let us know how we can help. I'll be thinking of you and praying too.


Posted by: Bostoniangirl | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 10:49 AM
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49, 51 making me cry now ... my father has


Posted by: emir | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 11:01 AM
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(oops less than symbol)
less than 6 months prognosis, my brother has two gorgeous toddlers who won't remember him really and if I ever have kids they won't know him. We all have a great relationship with him and wouldn't be done talking in 20 years.


Posted by: emir | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 11:03 AM
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But I've had that into my 30s so can't be too sorry for myself when I think of Teo's loss.


Posted by: emir | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 11:04 AM
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My most heartfelt condolences on your loss.


Posted by: NCProsecutor | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 11:13 AM
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Oh, emir, I'm sorry too.


Posted by: LizardBreath | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 11:14 AM
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oh dear, poor you.

with regard to 58, my son was 3 when my father died and he does remember him, although the baby doesn't.


Posted by: dsquared | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 11:22 AM
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My sympathies, emir.


Posted by: SomeCallMeTim | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 11:25 AM
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Thanks... won't hijack this any further.


Posted by: emir | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 11:26 AM
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Condolences to you and your family, Teo.


Posted by: Clueless | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 11:28 AM
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I'm so sorry, teo.


Posted by: Hamilton-Lovecraft | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 11:45 AM
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Terribly sorry; if you think of a way internet people can help please let us know. Glad you had the opportunity to spend some time before this happened.


Posted by: washerdreyer | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 12:03 PM
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I'm sorry, Teo. Condolences to you and your family.


Posted by: Idealist | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 12:39 PM
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So sorry to hear that, teo. Please let us know how you and the family are doing (if you feel like doing so) and if there's anything we can do.


Posted by: M/tch M/lls | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 1:29 PM
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i don't how old your father was

He was 60. We were on good terms, and we had a lot of nice times together in the past few months. I don't have any regrets.


Posted by: teofilo | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 2:28 PM
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I'm sorry for your family's loss, Teo.


Posted by: Magpie | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 9:15 PM
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We were on good terms, and we had a lot of nice times together in the past few months. I don't have any regrets.

That's great to hear, teo.


Posted by: Jesus McQueen | Link to this comment | 09-28-07 9:18 PM
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so sorry to hear of your loss, teo. from another member of the dead fathers club (i was 28). i hope you find a few of us types in real life to talk with - it can help.


Posted by: mmf! | Link to this comment | 09-30-07 4:58 PM
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